I’m feeling overwhelmed these days. At a time when my energy and focus is needed
most, I am scattered more than ever.
And I’m an expert at self-management! I’ve had over 15 years
of practice as a sole-practitioner, a soul-proprietor, an indy, writer, coach
and SeeChange president (wink-wink). I am
my own boss. I don’t take orders from the man. Every day it’s up to me to set
the agenda, construct my day as I see fit, balancing my creative, business and
social interests.
But right now, beneath this darkening sky of oppression, I
am unsure, thrown-off my game. My vision is blurry.
I awaken each morning and wonder where to turn, how to
focus my energy. I am lured right onto social media to check-up on the latest Trumpian
drama and trauma, to post and comment and scream at my screen. I refuse to be
in the dark. I’ve committed to get out of
my liberal arm-chair and into action.
I’ve marched, I’ve protested, I’ve sent emails, made phone calls, written
letters to the editor and gotten on the TV news. While I live in
Taxation-without-Representation DC, I’m finding ways to be heard. I co-organized
and facilitated What NOW? An Evening of Drinks, Dialogue & Dissent event.
Now we have a Facebook page with 150 members sharing, supporting, being dissent.
(Please join: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whatnowdc/) I’ve taken non-violent direct action
(NVDA) training and I’m committed to getting arrested this year!
Okay, I’m not like some friends who have turned activist PRO
overnight! Who have made this fight for
freedom and justice their full-time job. These people are amazing and admirable
and I honor and thank them.
But I am doing something.
It may not be enough, it’s never going to be enough.
And herein lay the problem.
Even as I’m being pulled out of my work routine (and for
good reason), devoting some time and effort to the cause, I’m ridiculing myself.
One of the tricks of the time-energy-management trade I’ve
employed for years is My Morning Pages. I’ve been a devout journeler for years,
since high-school. And more recently, in
adulthood, I’ve been further encouraged by Julia Cameron (of The Artist’s Way and
The Right to Write fame) to practice a daily routine of pouring it out on the
page - first thing, first thoughts, each morning – and sometimes at night just
before light’s out.
It’s my way to get centered. It’s like having a status
meeting with myself each day – accomplishments, challenges, next steps.
My morning pages include memories that pop-up as I’m brushing
my teeth or washing the dishes that can lead to whole chunks or chapters of my
memoir-in-progress.
I muse on ideas for my SeeChange clients, a new workshop for
creatives, and the importance of finding your incubator within.
My journal pages can degenerate into to-do lists, and that
is fine, as long as the writing doesn’t start there.
The idea is to let my brain run free, uninhibited, like a
child tearing through a field or finger-painting with reckless abandon. Unsensored.
But guess what?
I’ve been skipping my life-saving writing ritual of late. I’ve
been drawn directly into email and social media to get my fix of what’s going
down under this new, scary regime.
I have to know – I sometimes participate in actions –
sharing posts – commenting, encouraging, raging, emailing or calling officials
to get my voice heard. But more often than not I’m simply trying to keep up
with what’s going down.
It’s fine, it’s okay, I try not to make myself wrong for
it. I’m buoyed by the blossoming,
burgeoning activism among my friends and fellow-citizens. It IS the silver lining.
But the truth is, by 10 or 11 am, after forcing myself off
the internet, I’m left scattered, discombobulated, unclear where I’m headed for
the day. And worse: adrenaline-infused
and angry.
My creative juices have been sapped. Sometimes I get up and grab something to eat
to fill the directional void and hope I get some clarity as I stand over the counter
cutting bananas into my hot cereal.
Like this morning. It’s a gray day. I’ve just read an article called Trial Balloon for
a Coup. Don’t click here if you don’t want to be distracted and so very
upset. https://medium.com/@yonatanzunger/trial-balloon-for-a-coup-e024990891d5#.5dbwrwf8d
I know, I KNOW, this getting scared and pissed-off is just
what they want. Their aim is to wear us down. I know it and I still let it
happen. Because the other side of it is
also true: We need the information to
spur us into action.
But right after reading the article and sharing it around, I
took a pause. I shutdown Firefox and turned my phone on airplane mode. I opened
my AMP 2017 Journal file and paged-down to the bottom and typed: February 1,
2017 at the top. Then I got writing.
I wrote all over the place about this feeling of confusion. In
the stillness, it got quiet enough to hear my thoughts. Ah-ha, I’m not making
the space. Gradually, I could feel my weight settling into the chair, my body getting
grounded. I resisted the vague urge to get
up, make another cup of tea or check the heat or grab a snack out of the pantry.
I wrote this.
This is about sustainability. How do we participate in this newly
blossoming democracy, develop these new activist muscles, effectively? How do last not just days or weeks but
persist for months and years, maybe the rest of our lives?
The Buddhists call it Right
Effort. Not too much, not too
little, just right.
Shoot, I faced this in the Peace Corps, in pueblito Mexico, where the needs were so
great, the unknowns so huge, the game of community development so new, the
language and culture barrier so high…and most daunting of all, the expectations
of myself out of whack.
I survived (and eventually thrived), though: I stood up for the women, learned the language, had some kind
of impact. And they had an impact on me.
How do I find that here, now, the space and grace for sustainability?
First by taking this pause in the regularly-scheduled
programming to recognize: I’m flailing
around. Then by writing this piece admitting
to it. Then by sharing these ideas and inviting
input.
Are others going through this too?
